Gift-giving, especially for someone close to you, is often an art, a blend of thoughtfulness and intention that reflects both you and the person you’re gifting. But when it comes to tarot decks, there’s a little extra magic in the mix! Tarot isn’t just any gift; it’s a deeply personal item, filled with mystery, wisdom, and symbolism. For someone who’s into spirituality, self-reflection, or the mystical, a tarot deck can be a meaningful and lasting gift. Whether you’re considering a tarot deck for a friend, a family member, or a beloved mentor, here’s what makes it so unique—and how to choose one that truly resonates.
1. Why Gift a Tarot Deck?
Tarot decks are much more than just collections of cards. They’re portals to self-discovery, guidance, and personal insight. Gifting one can be a heartfelt way to say, “I see you,” or “I believe in your journey.” It’s a meaningful gift for anyone already familiar with tarot or someone curious about diving into the mystical. Tarot decks can offer moments of introspection, creative inspiration, or simply a moment to pause in a busy life. When you gift a deck, it’s as if you’re giving a magical tool that holds the power to provide clarity, guidance, and even healing.
2. Choosing the Right Deck
Tarot decks come in countless styles, each with its own symbolism, art, and interpretation. If you’re picking out a deck, think about the personality, tastes, and level of experience of the person receiving it. Are they into bold, colorful art? Or maybe they’re drawn to dark, moody, or vintage aesthetics? Consider what might visually and emotionally resonate with them.
For example, someone just beginning their tarot journey might feel more at home with a deck that sticks closely to traditional Rider-Waite-Smith symbolism, as it’s widely used and easier to learn from. For the more seasoned tarot reader, an artistically unique or unconventional deck might spark a fresh perspective.
Tip: Many tarot lovers also enjoy oracle decks or themed tarot decks that align with specific interests (like nature, animals, mythology, or astrology). Gifting an oracle deck as a companion to an existing tarot deck could also be an exciting option!
3. The Power of a Personal Connection
Tarot decks can be an intensely personal possession. Many believe a deck carries the energy of the person who uses it, which is why some readers are particular about who handles their cards. If you’re considering giving someone a deck, you’re giving a tool that will likely become part of their spiritual or reflective practice. This consideration alone can make the gift feel deeply intimate and meaningful.
If you’d like to add an extra layer of connection, consider giving a deck that holds some personal symbolism or has a story. Maybe it’s a deck that reminds you of a shared experience or reflects something they once mentioned in a deep conversation. That extra touch will make the deck even more special to them.
4. Creating a Tarot Gift Package
Make the gift even more enchanting by pairing the tarot deck with complementary items. For instance, you could include a beautiful tarot cloth or bag, a crystal that amplifies intuition (like amethyst or labradorite), or another set of cards such oracle or lenormand. By creating a little tarot bundle, you’re not just giving a deck—you’re giving them an experience.
5. Supporting Them in Their Journey
If the person you’re gifting is new to tarot, you could also include a beginner-friendly guidebook. Many decks come with a small booklet, but it’s often a brief overview. A more comprehensive book on tarot can serve as a helpful resource for understanding each card’s meanings, spreads, and symbolism. Some decks even come with QR codes that link to online resources or apps, making it easier to learn on the go.
For the experienced reader, a unique tarot journal might be a thoughtful addition, allowing them to document and reflect on their readings over time. And if you’re both into tarot, perhaps offer to read together—it can be a bonding experience and a fun way to explore the new deck together.
6. The Ritual of First Impressions
A tarot deck can often feel as if it has its own personality. Encourage the person receiving it to set aside a few quiet moments to open and explore the deck, making it a ritual. This first encounter is a magical time, when they can admire the artwork, shuffle the cards, and even pull a “first impression” card. By spending time with their new deck, they’ll start to form a personal connection with it—a connection that can grow deeper each time they use it.
7. Gifting Etiquette: To Open or Not to Open?
There’s a long-standing (and often-debated) tradition in the tarot community that a tarot deck should be gifted rather than bought for oneself. While this isn’t a rule, it’s a lovely sentiment that makes a gifted tarot deck even more meaningful. If you’re gifting a deck, let them know you chose it with intention and care. If you’re comfortable with it, consider letting them “cleanse” or “bless” the deck in their own way before they start using it; this can be as simple as holding the deck and setting an intention or as elaborate as a full moon ritual.
A Thoughtful Farewell
At its core, gifting a tarot deck is an invitation for the receiver to explore themselves in a new way. You’re giving them not only a beautiful set of cards but a new perspective and perhaps even a new practice that can add value to their life. And who knows? This could be the start of a shared tarot journey between you—a new topic of conversation, reflection, and discovery.
So, the next time you’re considering a special gift, remember the magic and mystery that a tarot deck can bring. It’s more than a gift; it’s a gesture of belief in their journey and a reminder of the beauty of self-discovery.